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EL CASO QUE CONGELÓ PERÚ: UN HOMBRE DESAPARECIÓ TRAS CASARSE

That day was the wedding of Marcelo Vargas Ramírez and Luciana Campos Martínez, a couple who had been in a relationship for almost 4 years.  Marcelo was 35 years old.   He was born and raised in the San Juan de Lurigancho district in a working-class family.  His father, Hector Vargas, had been an automotive mechanic for more than 30 years before retiring.

  His mother, Rosa Ramírez, was a housewife and took care of her three children. Marcelo was the oldest, followed by his 32-year-old brother Carlos and his 28-year-old younger sister Daniela. Marcelo had studied accounting at a technical institute and worked as an accountant at a medium-sized import company in downtown Lima.

  He was a man of average height, approximately 1.75 m, with a slim build, black hair always neatly combed, and a calm smile that inspired confidence. Luciana was 30 years old and came from a middle-class family in the Jesús María district.  His father, Fernando Campos, was a civil engineer and had worked on several important construction projects in Lima.

  Her mother, Gloria Martínez, was a mathematics teacher at a private school.  Luciana was an only child, which had made her the center of attention and affection of her parents all her life.  She had studied interior design at a private university and had her own small studio where she received clients for residential remodeling projects.

  She was a woman of 165 m, with light brown hair that reached her shoulders, expressive green eyes and an extroverted personality that made everyone feel comfortable around her. Marcelo and Luciana had met in 2015 at a gathering of mutual friends on the Malecón in Miraflores.  He had gone with his brother Carlos, she with a friend from work.

  The conversation between them flowed naturally from the very first moment.  They talked about everything: music, movies, their jobs, their dreams. Marcelo confessed that he had always wanted to have his own accounting consulting firm.  Luciana shared her dream of one day designing boutique hotels in the provinces of Peru.  The first official date was a week later at a Creole food restaurant in Barranco.

  They asked for aji de gallina.  They ate causa limeña and drank chicha morada while talking for hours.  The chemistry was undeniable. They started dating regularly.  On weekends they visited museums, walked along the boardwalk, went to the movies or simply spent time at one of their houses watching television series.

  The relationship progressed naturally and healthily during the first two years.  The families met and got along well from the start. Rosa, Marcelo’s mother, adored Luciana.  She is a polite, hardworking girl and it’s clear she loves my son.  She was telling her friends from the neighborhood.  Gloria and Fernando, Luciana’s parents, also approved of Marcelo.

  He is a responsible man with his feet on the ground, Fernando said.  That’s what our daughter needs.  However, like any relationship, they had their difficult moments.  Around the third year of their relationship, minor tensions began to emerge .  Marcelo worked long hours, especially during the accounting closing and tax return season.

Sometimes days would go by without them seeing each other physically, communicating only through WhatsApp messages or brief calls. Luciana, for her part, was expanding her business and also had demanding hours with demanding clients.  There were discussions about the future.  Luciana wanted to get married, settle down, and plan a family.

Marcelo, although he also wanted to, felt the financial pressure to take that step.  “I don’t want to get married until I’m sure I can give you the life you deserve,” he told her.  Luciana was frustrated by that answer.  I don’t need luxuries, Marcelo.  I need you.  We can build together.  These arguments became more frequent during 2018.

 There was a moment, around October of that year, when the relationship was on the verge of ending.  Luciana gave him an ultimatum.  Either we make a formal commitment or we each go our separate ways.   I ca n’t keep waiting indefinitely. Marcelo, faced with the real possibility of losing her, reflected deeply for two weeks.  In December 2018, during a Christmas dinner at Luciana’s parents’ house , Marcelo knelt in front of her with an engagement ring.

  It wasn’t an expensive or ostentatious ring, but it had meant months of saving for him.  Luciana, forgive me for making you wait so long.  You’re right.  The important thing is that we’re together. Will you marry me?  Luciana cried with emotion while nodding repeatedly.  The whole family celebrated with hugs, champagne toasts, and tears of joy.

  The wedding preparations took 6 months. They decided to have a civil ceremony, followed by an intimate reception for approximately 80 guests, including close family and friends.  They couldn’t afford an overly elaborate wedding, but they wanted something meaningful and memorable.  Luciana took care of most of the decorative details using her experience as a designer.

She chose a color palette in pastel shades, pink, light, beige and white. The flowers would be roses and hydrangeas.  The reception hall, the garden of the newlyweds, was perfect for what they were looking for.  A medium-sized space with capacity for 100 people, with a small interior garden where they could take photographs, and at an affordable price that fit their budget.

  The menu would include an appetizer of tequeños and causa rellena, a main course of lomo saltado or grilled fish, and a dessert of suspiro limeño.  The music would be provided by a well-known DJ who had given them a special price because he was a friend of the family.  On Friday, June 7, the day before the wedding, Marcelo looked nervous.

  His closest friends , Javier and Roberto, organized a small bachelor party at a bar in Miraflores.  It was nothing extravagant, just beer, snacks, and conversations among friends.  “Are you ready for this?” Javier asked jokingly.  Marcelo smiled, although his smile didn’t fully reach his eyes.  “Yes, I am, Luciana. It’s incredible.

 It’s just a big step, you know?” Roberto, who had been married for five years, patted her shoulder. “It’s normal to be nervous, brother, but when you’re there and you see her walking towards you, all the doubts disappear. I assure you.” Marcelo nodded, taking a sip of his beer. “I hope you’re right.

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